I don't like my bff's bf/gf



I don't like my bff's bf/gf





Dear Friend Troubles,


I understand the situation you are in. I have met some of my friends bfs/gfs and I didn't like who they were with. By the way they act, behavior, etc. I felt like they could've done better or that other person doesn't have the same interest. Or either they are a bad influence on your friend. But I may have a few suggestions that may help you!


1. Speak up
I have seen my friend's boyfriend or girlfriends treat them badly or not take them seriously. You should sit down with them and talk about how they are suppose to be treated. Ask him/her how they feel when he/she treats them that way. Talk to him/her about how you feel about that relationship, or you could try to make their relationship better. Look for an open door to discuss the dating relationship and what you see may be helpful.


2. Realization
Make your friend realize the way they are being treated. Tell them that it's not ok for their significant other to act that way. Your friend should be the first person to notice and cut them loose themselves. Your friend should have a better judgement if they should stay or leave their significant other. Ask he/she how they feel about it. Are they happy with what they have? Give her time to see if he/she improves. They will know if their relationship will get better or not.

3. Don't take responsibility of their relationship
You have wait this one out and trust that your friend will get there on their own. That may seem harsh but sometimes being a good friend is sitting down and being quiet and letting them find their own way. Otherwise, don't keep reminding he/she that you dislike their significant other, give he/she time to realize what he/she wants and what makes them feel happier. Even if it's with or without that person they are with.








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  1. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2019 at 10:34 AM

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  2. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2019 at 10:35 AM

    I think the advice given is very helpful.

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  3. Isobella O'ConnellFebruary 4, 2019 at 10:36 AM

    I can relate to this. Good job!

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  4. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2019 at 12:01 PM

    Really good thing to read/good advice.

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  5. AnonymousFebruary 11, 2019 at 12:06 PM

    Great advice, very helpful.

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